|PHOTO CREDIT: Allison Hinman Photography|
This year, she added a fall sport, too; she kicked PATs (points after touchdowns) and field goals for the South Iredell Vikings football team.
|Julia after her first high school football scrimmage.|
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Julia had been begging since she was little to play football, and I’d always said no, because I’d seen the news coverage of the NFL concussion studies, and I'd viewed the TV special reports about “student athletes” with permanent disabilities. But this past spring, I started thinking about saying yes. For one thing, she’d grown into a very capable athlete – and a big, strong kid – about 5'9-1/2" and 160 pounds. She plays hard, and she’s very competitive. In soccer, she’s been named All Region and All Conference for the past two years.
Second, I’m a feminist. I think girls and women should have the same opportunities as men, be paid the same as men for doing the same work, and be respected for their contributions. Lately, it’s been especially apparent that women are not getting the respect we deserve, let alone the opportunities or the pay. You don't have to look very hard in many fields – from politics to business to Hollywood — to see that.
This spring, some of the guys on the football team started telling her that she should try out. They’d seen her kick on the soccer field, and they thought she was good. At dinner on her seventeenth birthday this spring, she asked again if she could play.
Julia wanted the opportunity to prove herself, and she wanted to play the game. How could I say no? So I relented, and said yes. I didn't know if anything would come of it.
This summer, some of her friends on the football team met her on the field, gave her some tips, then taped her kicking and texted it to the head coach, Scott Miller:
“Who is that?” he texted them back. And told them to stay there; he was driving over to see. After watching her, he said she had a spot on the team if she could get her parents’ permission.
And then our grand adventure was on.
|Julia waits on the sidelines (lower right, #21).|
I'm proud of my kid. Proud of her for taking risks. Proud of her achievements on and off the field. I’m glad she got to play a game she loved. And honestly, I’m relieved – and rather amazed – that it went so well.
I knew that she’d have some good times and some difficult times playing a guy’s sport with all male players and all male coaches. I worried that she’d have obscene things screamed at her, and detractors who would try to tear her down. But I was pleasantly surprised. She got tremendous support and sportsmanship from her fellow players. Her coaches welcomed her and treated her like all the other players (with a little friendly teasing, perhaps, but nothing more).
|Coming off the field (center, #21)|
|Head Coach Miller chats with Julia before a game.|
|Kicking Coach Noel (in navy above and in gold at left below).|
|Julia with Ethan (left) and Haynes (right)…|
|Julia’s senior poster hanging on the fence around the stadium.|
|Coming off the field with a smile.|
She started practices in July, and when pre-season began in August, news started leaking out about South Iredell's new “female kicker.” The Charlotte Observer reported about her (read the story here), and the Charlotte CBS affiliate, WBTV, sent a reporter to practice to interview her (see the video here).
One of the things that surprised us the most was the impact her playing had on the high school girls, and on the young children who came to the games. A lot of young girls (and boys) came up to her after the games to get their photos taken with her, or even get her autograph, and to tell her they admired her. Julia was shocked, and it took a few games for her to figure out just how to respond.
|Before a playoff game. #21 is one of the players listed on the signs.|
In the stands, I could hear kids around her cheering for “number 21.” One girl, no more than 8 years old, yelled out, “Kick it like a girl, Julia!” Mothers of the male players embraced me with tears in their eyes, telling me how thrilled they were that she was playing. Some told me how much they had wanted to play when they were kids, and were denied. Some older guys – grandfathers of the male players – were equally excited, and cheered just as hard. Her girlfriends – many of them also athletes – rallied around her, making signs, and cheering when she went on the field to kick.
One of the most memorable nights was Homecoming, when Julia was named both Offensive Player of the Game and Homecoming Queen (Statesville Record & Landmark story here). After she was crowned, the guys on the team swarmed around her, hugged and high-fived her, and posed for photos.
|Julia surrounded by teammates and friends after being crowned Homecoming Queen|
|Julia with me and Rob after the game.|
Quartz Media wrote a short piece about it; you can read it here.
When I posted about it on social media, the story went viral, and I spent about a week fielding media inquiries. She even got a letter from Samantha Rapoport, director of football development for the NFL, and a Carolina Panthers shirt.
How did she do? In the 2017 season, Julia:
- scored 46 Points After Touchdown (out of 48 attempted)
- scored 7 Field Goals (out of 10 attempted)
- was the third highest scorer on the team, with 67 points
Looking at records from SIHS from 2008-2017 she scored:
- the most points by a kicker
- the most points per game by a kicker
- the most PATs made
- the highest percentage of PATs made
- the most field goals made
- the most field goals attempted
- the longest field goal (36 yards)
She was also the first girl ever to:
- be named to the All-County football team (Statesville Record & Landmark)
- score a point for the South Iredell High School football team.
|Stickers on Julia’s helmet mark points scored.|
|Rob is a huge sports fan, and loves nothing better than watching his daughter play.|
What was her longest field goal? 36 yards, although she often hit 40+ yards in warmups.
Is she accurate? Yes. Nearly all her field goals and PATs were good. Of the ones she missed, most were tipped by boys on the opposing teams who jumped up and bumped them so that they didn't go through the posts.
Does she want to play in college, and where is she going? She was just accepted at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, her first choice of colleges right now. After four very rigorous years in the International Baccalaureate curriculum, her goal in college is to focus on academics while still having a social life. That's why she didn't pursue playing soccer in college (although she may do intramural or club soccer). Who knows; maybe she’ll change her mind and walk on for football tryouts at Carolina!
Weren’t you afraid she’d get hurt? Yes; that's why I always said no before, and why I insisted that she only do PATs and Field Goals, where the risk is very low. (She basically ran on field, kicked, and ran off the field.) She sustained no major injuries while playing football. In our experience, we've seen more concussions during girls’ soccer, although Julia is fortunate to have not had one so far. She has had several minor injuries this basketball season so far.
How long has she been playing? Julia only started playing football this summer, although she did throw a football around with the neighborhood boys when she was little. She joined her first soccer team when she was 4, and has played ever since. She’s also played softball (for a few years in elementary school) and basketball (since middle school). Julia’s played on the varsity soccer team since her freshman year. She’s been a captain for her varsity soccer team her junior and senior year, for her JV basketball team her freshman and sophomore year, and for her varsity team her senior year.
Did she know much about football before she started playing it? Yes. Julia has been watching football – and lots of other sports — with her father since she was tiny. She has a good grasp of strategy, and an amazing ability to read the field. She shocked her grandparents at age 5 by explaining a complicated play to them when they were watching an NFL game together. She’s won college basketball brackets. And some of her fantasy football teams have been quite good; she's outplayed a number of the soccer dads.
How the heck did you end up with such an athletic kid? I have no idea; I am a total klutz. My husband played youth sports. My father played basketball in high school. And Julia’s great-grandmother, Helen McDanel Brubaker (my paternal grandmother) played basketball in high school and coached her high school team after college. Maybe it’s in the genes!
|Helen, Julia's great-grandmother, about 1917.|
Are you glad you let her play football with the boys? Yes, absolutely. It was a great experience for all of us. I hope it has reinforced Julia’s belief that she can do whatever she sets her mind to do, even in male-dominated fields. And I hope it has made the young men and the coaches who witnessed it think differently about girls, and be more likely to welcome them on the field, in the classroom, in the workplace, and in positions of leadership. While I’m frustrated that it’s taken us as a society so horribly long to get to this point, Julia’s experience has given me hope that today’s girls and young women will be allowed to participate, and that they will thrive and achieve.